| Every day thousands of people log on to online dating sites looking for romance
or long-term commitment and love. In fact, online dating is becoming more
popular as increasing numbers of men and women of all age groups seek an online
connection. Use the following tips as a guide to online dating success.
1. BE HONEST. When placing an ad or replying to an ad make sure you tell the
truth about yourself.
2. MAKE YOUR AD STAND OUT. Write an eye-catching headline. And add some humour
if you can. (Beware: Don't be smutty as this will turn people off.) Check out
the competition. See what attracts you to other ads then use a similar style
with your own. Be original Even if you like moonlit walks along the beach and
candlelit dinners, restrain yourself from writing about it because you will
sound just like everybody else.
3. USE A PICTURE. It's true that pictures are worth a thousand words. If you are
placing an online dating ad, make sure you include a good quality photo. Also,
make sure the photo reflects what you really look like otherwise a first
meeting could end in disaster.
4. BE SPECIFIC. You know your self really well. Make a list of your positive
points and your interests then tell them about it in your online dating ad. Be
realistic!
5. CONSIDER WHAT YOU WANT. Find out about your target market - what they like
and don't like to read in ads then write yours accordingly. For example: If you
are a man who wants a long-term commitment, don't list the physical assets you
want in a woman, as the women who want long-term commitments will not respond
to this. If you are a woman who wants a man who loves techno music, don't say
you are a Mariah Carey fan.
6. BE POSITIVE. Nobody wants a sad sack.
7. COME BACK OFTEN. If you are serious about finding someone visit us
often. We add new services all the time. Other members are more likely to
write to someone who is active on the site.
8. ANSWER MESSAGES LIKE A CONVERSATION. If you are answering a message or
sending another online dating ad, make sure you are not too formal. Structure
your messages like a conversation. Be positive and friendly and don't say
anything that could be misconstrued.
9. REMAIN ANONYMOUS. Do not give out your real email address, last name, phone
number, address or workplace details.
10. CONSIDER SAFETY WHEN MEETING SOMEONE IN PERSON. Meet in a public place and
bring friends.
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